The holidays are often portrayed as joyful, festive, and full of connection—but for many people, mental health during the holidays can feel anything but easy.

Between packed schedules, financial pressure, family dynamics, grief, or loneliness, the holiday season can bring heightened stress, anxiety, and emotional exhaustion. If you’re finding this time of year challenging, you’re not alone—and there are ways to support your mental well-being.

Why Mental Health During the Holidays Can Be Hard

The holiday season comes with unique stressors that can impact emotional health, including:

• Increased social and family expectations
• Financial strain and gift-giving pressure
• Grief or reminders of loss
• Disrupted routines and sleep schedules
• Seasonal changes and reduced daylight

Understanding why this season feels hard is an important first step toward caring for your mental health.

Common Mental Health Challenges During the Holidays

Mental health during the holidays can show up in different ways, including:

• Heightened anxiety or irritability
• Feeling overwhelmed or emotionally numb
• Increased sadness or depressive symptoms
• Difficulty sleeping or concentrating
• Social withdrawal or burnout

These responses don’t mean you’re doing the holidays “wrong”—they’re signals that your nervous system may need extra care and support.

Tips for Protecting Your Mental Health During the Holidays

1. Set Realistic Expectations

You don’t have to attend every event, maintain every tradition, or make the season perfect. Give yourself permission to simplify.

2. Create Emotional Boundaries

Family gatherings can bring up old patterns or conflicts. Decide ahead of time what topics or situations you’ll step away from if needed.

3. Stick to Supportive Routines

Even small routines—like regular meals, movement, or bedtime habits—help regulate stress and mood during busy weeks.

4. Schedule Time for Yourself

Block time on your calendar for rest, reflection, or activities that help you recharge. Treat self-care like a real commitment.

5. Stay Connected in Healthy Ways

If loneliness is part of your holiday experience, gentle connection matters. Reach out to trusted friends, attend low-pressure gatherings, or connect virtually if that feels easier.

When to Seek Support During the Holidays

You don’t need to wait until the holidays are over—or until things feel unmanageable—to ask for help.

Consider reaching out if you notice:

• Ongoing anxiety or low mood
• Feeling overwhelmed or stuck
• Increased conflict or emotional shutdown
• Difficulty enjoying things you usually like

Therapy can provide a supportive space to process emotions, manage stress, and build coping tools that last beyond the season.

You Don’t Have to Navigate the Holidays Alone

At Collaborative Counseling, we support individuals, couples, and families navigating mental health during the holidays and throughout the year.

We offer:

• In-person therapy across Minnesota and Wisconsin
• Telehealth therapy statewide
• Flexible scheduling
• In-network coverage with most major insurance plans

📍 Serving: Chanhassen, Maple Grove, Roseville, Osseo, Northfield, Hudson, Eau Claire (Oakwood & Clairemont), and surrounding areas.

💙 If the holidays feel heavy this year, support is available.
👉 Schedule with us today.