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mindful eating supports mental health during the holidays

The holidays are often filled with joy, togetherness—and sometimes, stress. Between gatherings, traditions, and endless meals, food can become a source of anxiety rather than enjoyment. If you’ve ever felt guilt, pressure, or overwhelm around holiday eating, you’re not alone.

Practicing mindful eating is a powerful way to reduce food-related stress, nurture mental health, and help you reconnect with what this season is truly about: presence, gratitude, and connection.


🌟 What Is Mindful Eating?

Mindful eating is about bringing awareness to your eating experience—tuning into your body’s hunger, fullness, and satisfaction cues without judgment. Instead of labeling foods as “good” or “bad,” it’s about noticing how different foods make you feel and making choices that support your well-being.


🍽️ How Holiday Stress Impacts Eating

The holiday season can heighten emotions—joy, nostalgia, sadness, and even guilt. These emotional highs and lows can lead to overeating, skipping meals, or feeling disconnected from hunger cues.

Common sources of holiday food stress include:

  • Diet talk at family gatherings
  • Pressure to overindulge or “make up for it later”
  • Body image concerns heightened by social settings
  • Guilt about enjoying festive foods

Recognizing these triggers helps you approach meals with compassion rather than criticism.


🌿 The Connection Between Mindful Eating and Mental Health

Mindful eating isn’t just about what’s on your plate—it’s about how you relate to yourself. Research shows that mindfulness practices can:

  • Reduce anxiety and depression symptoms
  • Improve emotional regulation
  • Strengthen self-compassion
  • Support healthier eating behaviors

By slowing down and being present during meals, you’re giving your mind and body permission to relax—helping reduce stress and boost mood throughout the holidays.


🧡 Tips for Practicing Mindful Eating During the Holidays

1. Pause Before You Eat

Take a deep breath before your first bite. This small pause helps you shift from autopilot to awareness.

2. Tune Into Your Body

Ask yourself: Am I physically hungry, or am I seeking comfort or distraction? Both are valid—but knowing which helps guide your response.

3. Savor the Moment

Engage your senses—the smell, taste, and texture of your food. Appreciating each bite encourages satisfaction with less stress or guilt.

4. Release the “All or Nothing” Mindset

It’s okay to enjoy your favorite foods without restriction. Mindful eating is about balance, not perfection.

5. Create Space for Self-Compassion

If you overeat or feel anxious, remind yourself: one meal doesn’t define you. Be kind to yourself and move forward with intention.


🌲 Caring for Your Mental Health Beyond the Table

Mindful eating extends to how you care for your overall well-being this season. Balance social events with quiet time, set healthy boundaries, and seek support if the holidays feel overwhelming.

At Collaborative Counseling, our therapists help individuals navigate stress, anxiety, and emotional eating patterns with compassion and understanding. Together, we can build healthier relationships—with food and with yourself.


💬 Ready to Feel More Balanced This Holiday Season?

If food stress or emotional overwhelm are taking the joy out of your holidays, therapy can help.
📅 Schedule a session today to learn mindful coping tools that support both your mind and body.


External Resource:
Learn more about Mindful Eating from The Center for Mindful Eating.

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How to Cope With Holiday Stress

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While the holidays can bring plenty of joy, for many people it can be a very stressful time of year. Almost a quarter of American’s report feeling “extreme stress” around the holiday season. Even if you are not someone who experiences a great amount of stress around this time of year, here are some coping skills you can use yourself or share with others who may be struggling with the stress of the holiday season.

Let Go of Expectations

We often become fixated on our expectations and become upset when reality does not match those expectations, especially when it comes to the holidays and traditions. Remember that things may not go perfectly or exactly as planned but that is not what really matters. The holidays are an opportunity to surround ourselves with friends and family and to share in experiences that bring us closer together.

Be Present and Mindful

The holidays are obviously a very busy and fast-paced time of year for many people. While it can be easy to fall into this pattern of go, go, go, be mindful of when you are experiencing stress or anxiety and when it may be time to take a break. Around this time of year, we tend to be focused on the needs of others and let our own needs fall by the wayside. It is important to make time for self-care, whatever that means for you.

Set Boundaries

Know your limits and know when to say “no” to things. Stress and anxiety can often arise from taking on too much at once. Part of good self-care is knowing when you have reached your capacity and setting boundaries around the use of your time (including who you spend time with and when). Know that you do not have to attend every holiday event you are invited to or spend time with people who do not make you feel your best.

Maintain Your Routine

With the holidays come plenty of fun events and delicious treats to enjoy. However, trying to maintain most of your daily routine can help greatly when it comes to coping with stress. Exercise, diet and sleep are key components to both mental and physical health. Most people do not get enough sleep and holiday stress can exacerbate that problem. Taking a daily walk, setting a “bed-time” for yourself and/or starting your day with a healthy breakfast can help you to feel and stay on track and maintain healthy habits during a time when schedules tend to fluctuate.

The holidays don’t have to be a time of extreme stress! Try to focus on the things that fill you up rather than the things that drain you. Spend more time doing things and spending time with the people who lift you up and make you feel your best. Most of all, remember that the holidays are what you make them, no more and no less.

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