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Coping with Summer Anxiety and Social Pressure

Posted by Collaborative Counseling

Summer is often portrayed as a season of freedom, fun, and relaxation—but for many, it brings a unique set of mental health challenges. From packed social calendars to overwhelming heat, anxiety can creep in just when you feel like you’re supposed to be carefree. Understanding the sources of summer anxiety and learning strategies to manage it can help you navigate the season with greater ease and confidence.

🌤️ Why Summer Triggers Anxiety for Some

1. Social Expectations and FOMO

With more events, parties, vacations, and social media posts showing others “living their best life,” you may feel pressured to participate—or guilty if you don’t.

Tip: Reflect on what you enjoy. Say yes to meaningful events and no to anything that drains you. Practice gratitude for your unique summer experience.

2. Body Image Pressures

Warm weather means swimsuits, shorts, and tank tops—clothing that may make some people feel exposed or uncomfortable.

Tip: Dress in a way that feels both seasonally appropriate and emotionally safe. Follow body-positive resources and focus on how your body feels—not how it looks.

3. Change in Routine

Whether it’s your kids being home all day, a disrupted sleep schedule, or the pressure to “get out more,” a shift in daily life can cause unease.

Tip: Create a flexible summer routine. Build in quiet time, movement, and meaningful social interaction.

4. Travel and Vacation Stress

Traveling—while enjoyable for some—can provoke stress related to planning, socializing, or being away from your comfort zone.

Tip: Prepare for trips by making lists and allowing extra time. If needed, schedule quiet time even during vacations.

🌱 Summer Anxiety Coping Strategies

Practice Mindfulness Outdoors

Spending even five minutes focusing on your senses—sight, sound, smell, touch—while outdoors can help reset anxious thoughts.

Create a “No Pressure” Summer List

Instead of lofty summer bucket lists, make a simple list of 3–5 things that would bring you peace or joy.

Use Grounding Techniques

When anxiety spikes, try the 5-4-3-2-1 technique:

Limit Social Media Consumption

Comparing your summer to highlight reels on Instagram can worsen anxiety. Schedule app-free hours or use filters that hide specific content.
🔗 Social Media and Mental Health – HelpGuide

Seek Support When Needed

If anxiety feels unmanageable, therapy can help. Connect with a Collaborative Counseling therapist for support this season.

Final Thoughts:
You don’t need to conform to summer stereotypes. It’s okay to rest, say no, and do summer your way. By managing expectations, setting boundaries, and caring for your mental health, you can enjoy a season that’s calm, comfortable, and true to you.

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Separation Anxiety and School

Posted by Collaborative Counseling
Mother and Child Walking Counting Their Blessings

What is Separation Anxiety?

Separation anxiety is a normal fear that children have about leaving their parents and/or caregivers. Typically, it peaks in toddlers around 14-18 months. It can continue into early childhood, especially in new or unfamiliar environments.

Tips to Ease Separation Anxiety at School

Starting school can be exciting and scary for kids at the same time. They’re ready to assert their independence and be a “big kid” while still valuing their parents attention and companionship. There are a few things you can do to help your child make the transition into being a student.

  • Spend time with your child at their school and/or classroom before their first day. If you can, spend time with your child’s teacher so that they are familiar with them and their new environment on the first day.
  • Have your child bring a comfort item, such as a blanket, stuffed animal or anything else that helps them feel safe. Over time, you can work on phasing the item out of their routine.
  • Keep your goodbye brief, dragging it out can make leaving worse.
  • Let your child know that you’re leaving and when you will be back and avoid “sneaking out”.
  • Keep a relaxed, happy look on your face. A worried or sad expression can signal to the child that the place you are leaving them is not safe and could cause them to become upset too.

Working on Separation Anxiety at Home

If your child is experiencing separation anxiety, there are some things you can do at home to help. Reading a book or telling a story about separation can be helpful for children to not feel alone in their fear. Work on building your child’s self-esteem with praise and positive attention. Although separation anxiety can be stressful, try to avoid being negative about your child’s issues with separation. This can create guilt and shame around the child’s feelings of fear.

Remember that this is a common experience for many children. With patience and encouragement, you can help your child work through their fears and become happy, confident school-goers.

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Tips for Going Back to School

Posted by Collaborative Counseling

Getting ready for and going back to school can be a very stressful time. Following the slower pace of summer, many struggle to get back into the mind frame to focus on learning and schoolwork.

Here are our favorite tips for parents to help prepare for the transition into a new school year.

Practice Getting Back on a Schedule

Take the week or two leading up to the first day to transition back to your school-year schedule and routines. In addition, work to get you and your kids back on the usual sleep schedule for school.

Take Care of Any Health Needs

If your child needs a physical, check up or needs medication refills make sure to follow up with appropriate health care providers. Also, try to be proactive in getting help for both physical and mental health needs your child may have going into this next school year.

Get Oriented

If your child is going to start in a new school this year spend time getting familiar with the space. Practice finding their classrooms, restrooms, the office or nurse and any other areas they need to be familiar with. The best way to ease anxiety about this first day of school is to help your child feel as prepared as possible.

Be Prepared for the First Day

To decrease the stress of the first day help or remind your child to pack their bag. Also, have them pick their outfit the day before. In addition, make sure to have healthy breakfast and snack foods available for your child.

All of these tips are aimed at helping your child to be successful on their first day of school. Anything you can do to decrease the stress and anxiety of the first day of school is recommended. Remember, anxiety is often just about the unknowns. Therefore, the more of those you can decrease the better off your child will be. Most of all, we want to send kids into the school year focusing on academics and of course, friendships!

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